My approach

I care about healing, growth, and self-discovery

In counselling with me, we will use our therapeutic relationship and what’s happening between us in the “here-and-now” to get to know your patterns in relationship with others outside of therapy. I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to become a “secure base” from which you can learn more about yourself and heal from relational wounds you have from past experiences. I will help you develop a better relationship with yourself in which you are empowered get your needs met in healthier ways in the present.

I work using an integrated model of counselling, which means I draw from several schools of thought in my own unique approach. My work is informed by trauma theory, attachment theory, and transactional analysis. As increasing evidence demonstrates trauma is held in the body, I incorporate what is being held in the body throughout my therapeutic work and help clients tap into the rich information our bodies provide us with to enhance the healing process.

Due to the relational quality of my therapeutic work, I tend to work with clients on a long-term basis but am happy to work with short-term clients too using more solutions-focused methods. I am familiar with 12 Step Fellowships and am used to working alongside these programmes with clients in recovery.

How I work

In therapy with me, we will…

  • Become aware of the patterns of behaviour and thinking that are keeping you stuck, unhappy or distressed

  • Discover the roots of these patterns and investigate generational trauma

  • Equip you with knowledge about the mind-body connection and the nervous system

  • Help you start to heal from your wounds and discover how to make more supportive choices for yourself

  • Give you tools to help you with emotional regulation. This in turn reduces levels of depression and anxiety, and our ability to cope with life’s stresses

  • Help you learn to recognise patterns of self-abandonment and foster better relationships with ourselves. This greatly improves our relationships with others

  • Help you start to make more authentic choices in life that better align with our values and beliefs.